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Wesley Daniel James
Tingler
Sep 23, 1987 — Jun 24, 2026
Monday
Sharon Baptist Church
6:00 - 9:00 pm (Central time)
Tuesday
Sharon Baptist Church
Starts at 1:00 pm (Central time)
Tuesday
Calvary Cemetery
It is with profound sadness that we announce the passing of Wesley Daniel James Tingler, who passed away on June 24, 2026, at the age of 38.
Wes was born on September 23, 1987, in Ada, Oklahoma, to Doug and Brenda Tingler. He grew up in Shawnee, Oklahoma, and was a member of Shawnee High School's Class of 2007. Wesley was a proud member of the Seminole Nation of Oklahoma and belong to the Hvteyicvlke (Newcomer) Band and having his very proud of his Native Heritage. Wes enjoyed music, movies, collecting antiques cooking and had a huge heart with anyone in need.
Wes loved the outdoors and found joy in hiking, riding bikes, camping, fishing and spending time with his four children and family and friends. He had a gift for connecting with people and made more friends than most people meet in a lifetime. His generous heart, unmistakable laugh, and larger-than-life personality left a lasting impression on everyone who knew him.
Wesley had a passion for music. Growing up, him with his friends and brother, would all dream of stardom and performing on stage. He followed his passion by becoming a DJ later in life, and got to live his dream. Wes created a culture and following, called Livin' Loud. He proudly DJ'd and hosted the 2013 Shawnee Prom, and several weddings and events with his company. He made people smile and you enjoyed your time with him through the music and experience. He touch many lives through his passions, and he was the life of the room, no matter what the occasion. Simply put, Wes made you smile.
He was preceded in death by many beloved family members, including his grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins and great niece.
Wes is survived by his parents, Doug and Brenda Tingler; his brother, Michael B Rowe, his sister, Wendy; his wife, Hollyann; their four children, Wesley, Harlynn, Allayna, and Alyvia; and his two cherished grandsons, Anakin and Percy and his dog Phoenix, numerous aunts, uncles, nephews, nieces, cousins.
Wes's personality was vibrant and loud, and his love for those around him was just as big. Though he will be deeply missed, his laughter, his spirit, and the memories he created will live on in the hearts of all who loved him.
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